About Me

Posh & Spicy is a destination site for the modest inspired woman who is managing work, family and social life and wants to stay posh and glamorous while doing it all!


My name is Toby.  I am a 23-year-old jewish orthodox mom who loves to talk about anything revolving the interesting life of a woman. YES! Jewish people also love to look attractive and beautiful. “Posh & Spicy” is my platform to express my creativity and fashion sense focusing on modest wear. I take my inspiration from my random experiences and from my spontaneous thoughts and feelings. This blog started in my mind after having to explain to people that i can still be an orthodox jewish woman and still love fashion and beauty without compromising my own true values. As a Jewish mom, life can become very hectic between kids, constant holidays, big families and responsibilities and we are more likely to put ourselves on the bottom of the list. I want to inspire you and share with you how to make yourself a priority and how to make you feel fabulous at all times. I revel in everything revolving fashion, glam and beauty. It entertains me as well as relaxes me and it makes me feel young, alive and playful. Therefore i created this blog so that you could all share in my adventures and outlook on the beautiful things in life. Of course finding that perfect outfit that is both fashionable but still in the frame of my jewish values and rules is no easy task, so i thought of sharing with you my sense of style and how i incorporate trends in my everyday looks. I hope by sharing my reflections and ideas of mine, I’ll manage to bring some sunshine and lightheartedness to you in your busy everyday life!

Enjoy my blog and happy reading:)

Lots of love, Toby


  1. January 7, 2015 / 11:15 pm

    Hi Toby, great blog! Thanks so much for stopping by and following… much appreciated 🙂 Always great to meet new faces, looking forward to reading all your future posts! Karen x


    • January 14, 2015 / 12:56 pm

      aw thanks! i appreciate it:) xx

  2. January 15, 2015 / 4:22 am

    This is really awesome! I look forward to more of your blog! 🙂

  3. January 16, 2015 / 3:28 am

    Love it and fellow Blogger 101 enthusiast:)

    • January 16, 2015 / 8:17 am

      thank you darling:)

  4. January 21, 2015 / 2:03 pm

    I love your “about me” description. I do not have children (yet!) but I am newly married and busy and I totally understand the “not a lot of time to splurge on one selves, so simply reading some fashion and glam could make me feel better”. I completely agree. 🙂 Beautiful blog by the way! *Love* the layout. <3

    • January 21, 2015 / 6:05 pm

      wow! that is amazing to hear from readers! i am glad i have someone who understands and congrats on your not so long ago wedding:)

    • January 25, 2015 / 12:29 am

      aww thanks thats so sweet of you but i already got that nomination;)

      • January 25, 2015 / 9:59 am

        Not a problem! <3

  5. January 28, 2015 / 8:34 pm

    Just a beautiful blog Toby! I’m excited to join in on your creative adventures with you!!

    • January 28, 2015 / 8:35 pm

      yay:) that is great! looking forward to getting to know you:)

  6. Edwin Smith
    April 28, 2015 / 9:26 am

    Hello there!
    I have been following your blog for a few months now and I have to say that I think your content is great! Your content is entertaining, informative and compelling – everything a reader would look for in a blog post.
    I would love to create a customized guest post for your blog. I think that together our voices could send a message your readers will love!
    If you’re interested, I can provide you with a few customized solutions for your blog based on topics I know will be a good fit or, if you prefer, you can suggest topics you’d like to see. I’ll create compelling content that provides a new perspective on at topic that will interest your readers, inspiring them to want to keep coming back to learn more.
    Thank you for your time, I look forward to hearing back from you soon!


    Edwin Smith

    • April 28, 2015 / 3:32 pm

      yes i would love to. thanks for the compliments:) and thank you to being a devoted reader:) email me your ideas at tobyrubi@gmail.com

    • May 26, 2015 / 11:28 am

      aww thank you:) xx

    • June 3, 2015 / 12:54 am

      AWW thank you lovely

  7. June 3, 2015 / 4:21 pm

    Thanks for stopping by my blog. Love reading through yours. Keep it up.

    • June 3, 2015 / 4:23 pm

      aww thank you kirsten! hope i was able to inspire you

  8. June 22, 2015 / 11:08 am

    You have a beautiful blog Toby 🙂 i love the lay out!
    I am really excited and glad to join you 🙂
    xoxo http://www.stylepeaks.com

    • June 22, 2015 / 11:39 am

      yay welcome and i am so happy to have you along my ride:)

  9. June 24, 2015 / 6:50 pm

    Hi Toby 🙂
    I’ve been following your blog for a while it’s fab 🙂 I’ve just replied to your comment on my own ‘About Me’ page.

    Do you mind me asking how you customised your blog? Everything about the layout I love!

    I’d love if your followers checked out my blog 🙂

    Amie xx

    • June 24, 2015 / 7:25 pm

      hun it took me weeks to customize my blog. You got to be more specific in what exactly you wish to do and i will try to help. thank you for following and it is nice to have you here:) xo

  10. June 25, 2015 / 7:29 pm

    You have such a beautiful blog!! I am so looking forward to reading your posts!! 🙂 xo ~Katie

    • June 25, 2015 / 7:30 pm

      thank you katie:) and welcome aboard

      • June 25, 2015 / 7:38 pm

        You’re very welcome Toby 🙂 xo

  11. July 3, 2015 / 10:44 am

    Hi Toby, I nominated you for an award, check it out -http://justjaybeauty.com/2015/07/03/a-whole-lotta-awards/ Jay x

    • July 3, 2015 / 11:33 am

      aww thanks jay! xx

    • July 16, 2015 / 10:42 pm

      aww thank you kristina:) welcome on board hope to be inspiring you xx

  12. July 29, 2015 / 12:25 am

    Hey there Toby! I do a blog following spree every once in a while, and this July I’m going 7 for 7: following 7 fun blogs a day, each day, for the seventh month. Yours is today’s #2. Feel free to come visit me at http://www.thatssojacob.wordpress.com and if you like what you read, follow back! Thanks and have a great day!

    • July 29, 2015 / 12:29 am

      hey thats so cool. thanks

  13. August 12, 2015 / 6:21 pm

    You have such a beautiful blog 🙂 I am a new follower !!! xoxo

    • August 12, 2015 / 7:00 pm

      aww thank you and welcom:)

  14. August 15, 2015 / 5:27 am

    Your blog is so gorgeous! I can see all the work you put into it, it’s amazing and I love every picture! xo

    • August 16, 2015 / 1:21 am

      aww thank you! i got your email i will reply as soon as i can xx

    • Toby
      August 24, 2015 / 7:46 pm

      Thanks so much! enjoy xx

      • August 25, 2015 / 2:58 am


  15. September 1, 2015 / 5:47 pm

    Hi Toby,
    We love your blog, and we’d love to reblog some of your posts. First I have to ask are you a millennial (born 1980-2000)?


    • Toby
      September 1, 2015 / 5:49 pm

      hey. thanks so much. yes i was born 1993

      • September 1, 2015 / 5:50 pm


    • Toby
      September 8, 2015 / 4:11 pm

      aww thanks. sure send me a mail through my contact form. xx

  16. September 10, 2015 / 4:12 pm

    This is really awesome blog! #ILoveIt

    • Toby
      September 10, 2015 / 4:12 pm

      aww thank you

  17. September 17, 2015 / 4:20 pm

    Thanks for taking the time to visit and like my blog. Your blog is just awesome. If you really like my blog then you can follow me on carryurswag.wordpress.com
    xoxo 🙂